Teaching Yourself Success

Do you like to succeed? It sure feels good to, doesn’t it. Some people seem to succeed every time they do something while other fail at most things.

The question of why do some succeed and some don’t would be really interesting to have an answer to. It turns out that, not surprisingly, people have spent considerable time to try and find that answer and research indicates that something that could be called grit has a lot to do with it. The ability to just keep going makes the difference. If at first you fail, just try again, and again, and again.

But what do you do if you’re one of those that tries and fails and thinks; “nah, it’s not for me”?

Set yourself goals that you will reach. Make them so easy to reach that you guarantee success. Does it feel like cheating, it isn’t. It’s teaching you to succeed.

If you want to write a novel, start by writing a word or two a day for three weeks. Don’t bother about being coherent either. Three weeks later you’ll have something like thirty words written. That’s not a novel you say, and no it isn’t, but you’ve succeeded in writing on your novel for over twenty consecutive days and you’ve begun to establish a habit of writing. For the next three weeks write four words a day, no, you’re not a writer yet so keep it simple. Next step might be to make sentences by adding words.

You’ve teaching yourself a habit, and you’re teaching yourself to succeed and perhaps most important of all; you’re teaching yourself grit.

3 Things You Should Do When Commenting on Blogs

This site is, at least has been up til now, pretty much all about commenting on blogs. It even has a (sorely in need of some love) search engine for dofollow blogs. But from the comment moderation I do on this site I can say that the general quality of comments is frighteningly low. It’s obvious that most comments come from bots or from people with little time.

Commenting on blog posts can be a nice way to market your site if you just follow some simple guidelines. They’re not hard to do and they will cost you nothing but time. Let’s go through them one at a time.

First, read the blog post you’re commenting on, at least browse it. Trust me, this will prove important in step two. It might seem simple, but trust me, most people posting comments on this blog post will not have read this far.

Second, make your comment connect to the content of the blog post. Ask a question, disagree, agree, expand on the subject, write something to make the author believe you actually read, and care about, what he wrote. This is important, because it makes it that much harder to delete your comment from the moderation queue and so much easier to approve it. Authors wants comments that add value to the page.

Third, do you actually want a link from the site. Getting links from sites relating to your own will help you. A bunch of links from questionable sites will harm you.

You want the really pro tip about commenting on blogs? Read through to the end, at least read the end and make sure you comment on something right near the end. Remember when I said that most people don’t read the full post? One blogger wrote at the end of his post that the first reader to post a specific word in his/her comment would win a prize. The winning comment came in on page four of the comments. Imagine that, you could have won the prize, had I been that guy.

It’s Been a While

I’ve not written anything on this blog for six years now. There’s still a few people that find their way to this blog each day. Lets see if we can make anything happen here.

I’ve done a lot of things in the last six years but for the audience of this site I think the most interesting is that I’ve found a bunch of interesting podcasts to listen to, I guess I’ll have to write something about those and the things they’ve taught me.

 

30.000 DoFollow Blog Posts

This morning (GMT+1) we hit 30k blog posts* in our search engine, and there’s plenty of room in the database to add more. Hope you find this resource useful and gain lots of great links from it. Just remember to add value to the blogs you comment and we’re sure you will.

If you find any dofollow blog that’s not in our database be sure to add it.

*While we do realise that not all of those are in fact dofollows we have no outstanding reports telling us otherwise.

Dr Cason

My algo for automatically finding do follow blogs aren’t perfect (yet) and sometimes when I sift through the output from it to find actual dofollow blobs I stumble upon nofollow blogs that are so beautiful that I dare say I’ll never perfect the algo. Not that dofollow blogs can’t be both interesting and beautiful.

So here is my latest entry in the needs a link category: http://drcason.org/, a nofollow this time but head over there and see how nice a blog can look. You can even read some of the posts, the ones I’ve read was worth the effort.

What should I improve

I like the fact that so many use this service and I think it’s a great service. I’m sure however that you and other visitors can see ways to improve it. So my question to you is: what is the single thing I could improve to make your visits more productive and pleasant? Is there something in the design or some function you want to have?

Eleven thousand blog posts

Well obviously not on this blog but in the do follow search engine. Enough for everyone to find relevant blog posts to comment and gain valuable backlinks (if you don’t find anything just comment here and we’ll target the subject when we include more blogs). We’re adding more blogs every week and the blogs already in our index are scanned daily so our database will not only continue to grow it’ll grow faster and faster.